I’ve attempted using the ticket system, but I’m getting confused. I have a 4 yr old and 7yr old. They fight, and argue about EVERYTHING. I put 3 tickets on the fridge- no tattling, no disturbing the family peace, and no hurting each other. However, According to the book, they get 3 strikes for each ticket? I can’t seem to keep up with the number of strikes, and I’m at my wits end. How do I do this? Also- in regards to tattling, I’m concerned that if I keep that ticket will my kids learn not to tell me anything?