My husband and our 4 year old daughter do not "get along" very well and today we found out we are having our 3rd child that is another girl! (We have one boy, and now two girls). Does John have any advice for us on how my husband can "get along" w/ our daughter better? He backs off on disciplining her because she does not listen to him (We just kicked her out of the garden and have the sticker chart up!) and him being the leader in our home, I stay silent and listen to them bicker back and forth and it's not a pleasant experience and I know John would NOT approve! Helppp meee.