We have been doing the chart system for a week now with our 6 year old son targeting disrespect/defiance and disobedience. We started out with 8 squares a day. There have only been a few days when he has not hit square 1 by early evening and has been sent to his room. Being sent to his room is the ultimate in his mind and he has a huge fit... coming out of his room, calling us names, throwing stuff in the room or coming out and throwing it at us, slamming the door, etc. We are wondering how to deal with this? Are supposed to just ignore it? Or??