Susan, I guess I will have to disagree with your answer. What do all of the other millions of split parents do when they separate with young kids involved? I think my daughter is old enough 3-1/2 to sleep at Daddy's house. I don't want World War 3, but I have only seen my daughter 4 times since 1/1/12 because Mommy is dictating everything. John please give me your opinion. Any members opinions are welcome.