I am married with 3 kids:10yrs, 2yrs, 1yr. My parents have a history of cutting off association with my family for religious reasons. They are in our lives for a while, and then when their consciences are overwhelmed by their religious devotion they no longer allow themselves to be with us. This has a large impact on the children, because they do not understand, and they love them dearly. What would you suggest? Because it is so hard on the kids, we wonder if maybe they should decide to be "all in" or "all out" of our lives.