We need help kicking our 5 year-old daughter out of the garden. She is a high misbehaver and has been on the ticket system for a long time. Her target behavior has been refusing to do what we tell you to do. We never moved on from this because she never showed consistent progress, despite us never repeating directions and sending her to her room after losing all 5 tickets.
Her other misbehaviors include yelling at us and her siblings, calling people stupid, hurting her siblings, making messes with anything she can find(makeup, nail polish, markers, food, etc.), stealing food from kitchen, running away from us, going outside without permission, etc. Where do we start? One target misbehavior or more? How do we keep toys away from her when she has two younger siblings?