Hi, my kids are intolerant to dairies and gluten and complex sugar like withe sugar. My mother doesn't care about that. When I don't look, she gives my kids food behind my back. My kids are please at that times but not during the night when the problems show up. Sometimes they have fever, sometimes is stomachache, sometimes they throw up and sometimes it's ok (depends how much). I always bring food with me and she is upset about it and want to be a good grand mother and spoiled them. She brought my daughter of 6 at restaurant and let her choose what she wanted: chicken with bread and ice cream cone. I can tell you she has been sick. (my daughter taught that it was coconut milk ice cream). I really don't know what to do with both of them. Thanks.