We have been using the tickets method on our 3 year old for not obeying what we say that is her only targeted behavior right now. We have been using it for a week or so and have noticed that it had a bigger impact at first but now she is constantly losing her tickets but is not losing all of them to be sent to her room.. she will usually have one left around her bedtime..she is just misbehaving and not receiving the punishment. do we need to give her less tickets? not sure what to do. Also we are doing the toilet training rehab and her punishment for on purposes is to go to her room. If she is in her room from losing all her tickets how do we address/punish if she poops herself in her room?