My 11 yr old daughter is miserable all. The. Time!!! She ruins it for the rest of us. Friends of mine keep saying she is depressed and needs counseling. I feel like she is just spoiled. She says things like "I hate my life, it sucks" I now have a 3 yr old repeating her negative things! Her moods are all over the place and one second she is fine next second everything is crashing around. She is mean to her brothers as well and disrespectful to us. I am at my wit send because her foul moods trickle down and make us all miserable! Help!