I recently discovered a homemade bong in a guest room where my son's friend slept over. I certainly suspect that it is my son's. He is home for the summer. We pay for his education, room and board, partially funded his car, and most of his other expenses.
I'm a wreck over this. My husband feels that "it might not be his", but rather his friend's. We are in total disagreement about consequences. I think we should cut him off, he wants to give him yet another chance. (No previous knowledge of drug use, but has lied to us about multiple things). I'd appreciate your advise.