Hi there -- five years ago I used Diane's advice and put my child in the bathroom after dinner each night and told him he could come out after he'd pooped (he was withholding). It was very successful for him. My youngest child is now doing the same thing (in between them, my middle child potty-trained just fine with no such issues). I have searched through the editorials using different search terms, but can't seem to find the details I'm looking for. I know somewhere you have the whole process all written out and there was a certain way, or "term" to find it. Can you help? Thanks!