My 4.5 year old has recently started having accidents in preschool. These include both poop and pee. It doesn't seem to bother her. At first the school nurse would clean her up and send her back to class. She told us she pooped to go to the nurse because she liked her. So we took that option away and I would have to come pick her up when it happened. This was turning into a daily thing about 45 minutes after getting to school. The odd part is she would use the bathroom at school somedays prior to this. Her father is gone for work and she has recently had two friends move away in the last 2 weeks. I am at a loss on what to do.