The card system is working for the 3.5 year old and he is (begrudgingly) becoming obedient! However, he will not perform for me! He swims for his swim coach, but freaks out and demands to be put in a puddle jumper when he’s with me. He goes potty and blows his nose at his preschool, but demands a wipe with me. I won’t give him one, but there’s lots of crying. The most important one is that he will do his exercises with his physical therapist, but will only do a few of them with me. After that he says he’s tired or purposely does them incorrectly. What do I do about this? I was considering being a homeschool parent but he will only perform for someone who isn’t me!