I have 3 children, soon to be 5, soon to be 4, soon to be 2. I have begun implementing alpha speech and tickets within the last month. I am still using the "offense" to lose tickets as not obeying. When my 4 year old son loses his tickets and gets sent to his room, many times he will wet his pants. He has been potty trained since last July-Aug time frame and has accidents periodically. I am potty training his little brother right now. Am I trying to do too much? Should I ease up on him?