Question
Our 6 and 4-year-old girls have behavioral problems and suffer from consequences on a regular basis. We wonder how to deal with the situation when one girl is punished for bad behavior and another is not. For example, if we planned to eat some ice cream after dinner and one of the girls loses this privilege, shall we send her to her room while we eat ice cream so that she does not see? Is it appropriate not to give one girl something sweet, while her sister and parents eat it? Is it appropriate to eat something sweet in front of the girl if we cannot send her to her room at the moment?
