I have a four year old whom I am wondering is just being a kid....she does seek our attention but we have daily reading together and about 30 min play of the afternoon. I stay home with her and little sister whom is 2. My question is how much correcting needs to be happening as far as pick up your clothes, quiet down, etc. I’m not sure if she is being a kid and somethings need to let go (pick your battle mentality) or should we correct every single wrong? Also at bedtime she has a list of things she wants us to do While saying good night.....I have told her I didn’t want to do that and will tuck her in. Is this four year old land we are in or treading thin ice??