Hello. I am happy to report that following the advice I’ve received my four year old is now playing independently most of the day or happily with her younger sister. My issue is that when we have company over usually grandparents or when my husband comes home from work it’s like we lose everything and she goes back to craving attention. From wanting to wrestle and horseplay to constantly seeking what she can do to get some attention. What am I to do or am I to let them take the lead?