The other day my son asked not take his clothes from his room and wash them. (His clothes get mixed up with his brothers) His room was messy and she picked them up to wash them. They were debating this topic when my wife asked my opinion. I told my son that your mother will wash the clothes if they are on floor. He was still upset. My wife then told him to get his dirty clothes and I told him to leave so I could talk to her. I asked I thought we were not going to wash his clothes. She feels sending him away gave the wrong message and became upset. I feel she is micromanaging. I told him get dirty clothes.