My 16 year old has some very straight friends and some that are experimenting with drugs. I am suspicious all the time and have drug tested him which he has passed. The party house is across the street from ours. I can't get past the fact that I do not want to allow him to be around drugs and alcohol. All of this is causing me great anxiety. I’ve tried to talking with other parents about their rules with kids going over there but it has led to me being slowly shut out as I think parents don’t appreciate me stirring the pot.