Our issue has more to do with my spouse & me being on the same page & communicating. We have both read John's books, my hubby knows I'm a big proponent of his methods and says he "agrees" but, for example, I find that I am the only one using the ticket method with our one and only 5 yr old son, and he will say things like I'm the one who wants to bring down the hammer. Our son adores his father & wants him to do everything for him, and wants to do everything w/him. I feel his leniency has resulted in this. What advice do you have that might better enable us to work as a team?