We are retirement age. I already have and my husband plans to soon. It is a blended family. My husband's daughter continues to make poor choices and knows her dad will pay for everything. He has already paid probably $100,000 for divorce, purchasing a car, and sending her $1800 month, because she "needs it to live." He never let's her feel pain. She gets what she wants and knows he will rescue her. It is making me crazy as it affects our lives constantly. He gets mad about doing it, but never says enough is enough. I am sure she saves nothing (she does work), and when college rolls around, she won't even have to ask us to pay for her kids...just mention to her dad she doesn't know how she will pay. Any suggestions how I approach? If I voice an opinion he thinks I am questioning his judgement.