We started potty training our 22 month old boy again. We were unsuccessful the 1st time because he refused to sit on the potty after 4 days. After rereading your 'Toilet Training without Tantrums" book, I realized I may have been at fault since I was rather anxious. I have a much better attitude following the 5Cs. We're using the gate and potty bell this time. We made it through the 1st day, but our son still refuses to sit on the potty. We put him in a 3' gated square in the bathroom and he's thrown the potty our of the gate and screamed the entire 2 minutes he's in there. Should we be doing something different?