My daughter is 8 years old. when we tell her she must go to her room for the rest of the night, she throws a HUGE fit, crying, yelling, stomping her feet, refusing to go in, coming out when we walk away, saying "dad" or "mom" on repeat. What do we do to make her stay in her room? On the same line, how do we make her got to bed early. If we shut the lights off she turns them back on, she will even go as far as to hit the wall over and over again. What should we do?