We have 3.5yo boy girl twins and a 7 your old son. Our 7yo has always been a lot more work than the twins. Not something we expected. Is is always trying to get attention and at times, all three of them get in a "goofy, giggly" stage and it's a race to the bottom which just spirals out of control.
We are in the process of trying to setup the "well behaved child' system.
When we setup the tickets process, should all 3 kids have the same 2 or 3 offending actions we should concentrate on. For example, "Listing to Mom or Dad".
Also, is "Listening to what we say" to broad or should be get more specific with them when we roll this out?