Our 5 year old blames us for her problems and won't take ownership. For Example, coming out of daycare, her daddy's arms were full and he asked her to carry her papers. She dropped one under the truck and it got dirty and wrinkled. Well it was all dad's fault for making her carry the paper. This is a usual example, just that it happens with different items...we ask her to help, something goes wrong, so it's our fault for asking her to do it and because we wouldn't do it for her. What is the best way to respond?