So my son has arrived or maybe I should say my husband and I have arrived! Our son went from an out-of-control boy to a self-controlled obedient 5 yr old who has occasional tizzies. We took away things that evoked such emotional anguish that it seems to almost caused him physical discomfort & still no change until 2 things made the diff. 1st my husband finally lost any sympathy for our son. We were finally FULLY on the same page. 2nd, when he was out-of-control we locked the door to his room and ignored him until he showed us obedience. It only took 2x times of this cycle and he was done. It was was "the last stand" and reason has won over for 6 months now! Thank you!