In May of 2014, I posted a question regarding helping our 13 year old son overcome his habitual carelessness. We put your suggestions to work a week or so later and it has worked beautifully! I am so amazed that it has now become a "habit" for him to have his three things done without any reminding or nagging. We did what you suggested and posted our three expectations on the refrigerator and another copy on his wall in his bedroom. The very first day we had to send him to his room and then several times after that. We have not had to send him to his room in at least a month. THANK YOU!!