13 yo contacting birth mother


Our youngest daughter, 13, is adopted, her birthmother is literally a crack whore who has been in jail over a dozen times for soliciting and drugs; she was also involved in a murder where her pimp/baby-daddy killed one of her "customers" while she was "servicing" him. Our daughter is aware of this, but still watches her mother on Facebook but promised not to contact her until she was older. We have had 2 psychologists and 1 psychiatrist working with our daughter for 2 years now, dealing with her adoption "issues." She is diagnosed ADHD, lies constantly, has no impulse control. We do discipline her and keep her busy with athletic involvement. However, we found out that last week she got in contact with her birthmother, who now has access to hers and our information, and we are very afraid of her and the people she can share this with. I have been to the police and contacted her school. I have read every book Dr Rosemond has written, and Teen Proofing twice this past month. My husband and I are at a complete loss as to how to handle this situation, both currently and as this progresses. All of her therapists are useless. Please can you point us in the right direction?

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