Thanks Carri for your advice. Yes I think your suggestion sounds great-Now to get my husband on board.
Ok this might be a silly question but here it goes: What happens if my daughter gets up and is in the car by the time we leave, but hasn’t ate breakfast or made her lunch for school? Would that be considered not being responsible and she’ll have to go to bed the next night at 9pm? The only problem I can see her doing is that she will do the same thing the next day- just to prove her point that going to bed early isn’t going to make her get up earlier to eat breakfast and make lunch. I’m sure she wouldn’t go too many days without eating breakfast and/or lunch, but with her stubbornness who knows. Hope this makes sense.
Thanks for your help!!