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Toddler Takes Over the Table
Posted on 11/12/2018
My 2.5 yr old daughter will not sit for meals. She is constantly getting up from her meal and moving about. Each time we direct her back to her seat and tell her it's time to eat. I have...
Read MoreJunk Food Junkie
Posted on 11/6/2018
We have made some nutritional changes to the family diet at home. We are limiting sugar and providing healthier snacks and fruits and veggies for all of us. However, I have reason to believe...
Read MoreSchool Age Attention Seeker
Posted on 11/5/2018
I have a 10 yo who says she is good at nothing, not intelligent, not good at school. She is not putting effort in nothing she is doing. She doesn't want to do her homeworks and doesn't care if...
Read MoreTable Manners Matter
Posted on 5/18/2018
Our 8 year old daughter has poor table manners. What is your suggestion on improving them? We have tried nagging (obviously unsuccessful), working on one thing at a time (worked for the first...
Read MoreAddressing a Picky and Disruptive Eater
Posted on 3/9/2018
I have one boy, almost 4, who is a good eater and another, age 3, who is not. They eat together before my husband and I do and the bad eater cries about food he doesn't like, tries to pass food to...
Read More1 Year Old and Table Manners
Posted on 1/31/2018
My one year old has starting dropping food off side of high chair, yelling when she wants out, and sometimes refusing to eat what I have cooked. How do I teach her manners in her high chair?
Read More5 year old table manners
Posted on 1/10/2018
We have a hyperactive, strong-willed 5-year-old daughter (and we are learning to get on with this). We would like to know how to approach what we call “multiple offenses”. For instance,...
Read MoreNanny Won't Help with Eating Issue
Posted on 1/7/2018
In November I asked about my three old not eating well and my husband and I told her and enforces that if she didn’t eat it meant she wasn’t getting good sleep and her doctor said she must go...
Read MorePay Your Way
Posted on 8/28/2017
Hello, I've been asking questions for a few years now about my daughter. I've read John's book "The Well Behaved Child." My question regarding my now 7 year old daughter is this: How do I...
Read MoreStop Feeding the Beast
Posted on 8/28/2017
HI there, We are currently disciplining our 6 year old daughter for not eating her lunch most days. The problem she claims is that they turn on the TV during lunch so she doesn't eat. She also...
Read MoreMealtime Meltdowns Revisited
Posted on 8/23/2017
This is a follow up question to a previously asked question about my daughter's eating habits at breakfast. Things have gotten off track a bit with the start of Kindergarten for my son. Now that...
Read MoreMorning Mealtime Meltdowns: Four-Year-Old Edition
Posted on 7/11/2017
I'm afraid we've created a mealtime monster. My daughter just turned 4. She is not a morning person. She's also a suspected hypoglycemic. This has not been medically confirmed because when I...
Read More11-yr-old tummy troubles or just seeking attention?
Posted on 6/17/2017
Our 11 year old daughter began expressing stomach discomfort in early spring (i.e. VERY frequent complaining). In the absence of obvious illness (diarrhea, pain in night w/disrupted sleep, etc..),...
Read MoreFrustrated Grandparents Want a Peaceful Family Dinner
Posted on 6/11/2017
Our grandchildren, preschool aged, do not eat dinner with their parents, and have not been reared to share a family meal. Consequently, when the family comes to our house for the occasional meal...
Read MoreSkip the Sippy for Bottle to Cup Transition
Posted on 6/5/2017
My almost 2 year old still wants to drink only from a bottle. I've tried several different styles of sippy cups, but she refuses to drink from them. I've tried holding out for a while to insist...
Read MoreEight year old won't eat dinner
Posted on 4/19/2017
Food question. My 8 year old daughter hardly ever eats her dinner. For the first 6 years of her life I made too much a deal about it catering to her so she would eat. Now we just offer her...
Read MoreToddler Throws Food
Posted on 1/29/2017
We love your advice and have been following the "Turning the Terrible Twos Terrific" with our 19 month old son however we have a food thrower. We feed him before we eat, he's at his own toddler...
Read MoreNutrition for a 3 year old.
Posted on 1/16/2017
Is it okay to make a smoothie with whey protein added to the drink? This is for a 3 year old. Thank you.
Read MoreOut of control 5 and 3 y/o boys
Posted on 1/3/2017
Hello, I am doing a miserable job as a parent to my two boys (aged 5 and 3). They are out of hand entirely. We can't get through prayers at the dinner table without at least one of them being...
Read MoreTypical Day?
Posted on 12/18/2016
Hello.. I have a two year old who will be turning three in September...what should our typical day look like? I also have a 10 month old as well. We are struggling finding a routine and...
Read MoreStubborn 7-yo girl
Posted on 10/6/2016
This is about my 7 year old daughter, which wow, I can look back through my questions and see we've had many conversations about. I'm well-practiced in standing firm, not arguing, telling...
Read MoreSevere Allergy
Posted on 8/1/2016
My 7-year-old son has a severe life-threatening peanut allergy. He cannot be around people eating peanuts (it's potentially airborne) and he certainly cannot eat food that I did not provide for...
Read MoreMother Wants to Stop Micromanaging
Posted on 2/23/2016
Micromanagement. I definitely do it. My husband does it. We catch ourselves, but need to rid ourselves of it. The problem is that I have a hard time knowing when I'm "parenting" and when I'm...
Read More6 year old refuses to eat sometimes
Posted on 2/2/2016
Our six year old son at times refuses to eat meals that we serve. If he refuses to eat dinner, we have been sending him to bed right away without eating. If it is breakfast or lunch, we send him...
Read MoreNo Sugar
Posted on 10/22/2015
I need help in dealing with an overindulgent grandparent. My father-in-law is always willing to help out with the kids (ages 5 and 2). The problem is, he gives them obscene amounts of sugar. ...
Read MoreTeens...
Posted on 10/9/2015
17 yr old update Since my last communication our 17 yr old has lived in her room. Comes out to eat when we are not in the house. If I knock on her door I am answered with an aggravated what!!...
Read MoreUpdating the Ticket System
Posted on 9/14/2015
Our daughter is really throwing us for a loop lately with some of her behaviors. She appears to be constantly tired and very moody/dramatic. She sleeps 10-11 hours every night and seems to still...
Read More5 Year Old Picky Eater
Posted on 8/24/2015
My 5 year old son is a very picky eater. We have been trying to get him to eat more since birth. He is often mistaken for a 3 year old. I just tell people that he has never been very hungry. ...
Read More5 yo Complaining
Posted on 7/23/2015
Our 5 year old daughter complains a lot. It seems that when we offer her a meal, there is something wrong with it. It is our fault if something happens rather than her taking some ownership. If we...
Read More12 month old Fussy Eater
Posted on 6/25/2015
HI there, I have a 12 month old who is fussy at mealtimes. We mash and puree food for him and feed it to him. He won't eat most things without a distraction in front of him - i.e. a toy or...
Read More20 month old mealtimes
Posted on 6/23/2015
My son is 20 months old. We have struggled off and on at meal time for a while now. Some days he will eat eggs, veggies, etc. and then the next day won't touch any of those foods. Last night he...
Read More22 month old not eating and throwing tantrums
Posted on 4/1/2015
Two questions for you: 1) Our 22 month old daughter has become extremely picky at mealtime. As in, she will not eat anything that we put in front of her. We know that she snacks at daycare, but...
Read More3 year old eating issues
Posted on 11/6/2014
Since our son turned 3 recently, he has completely refused to try anything new at dinner time. We really believe that he should at least take one bite of everything on his plate! Because he is...
Read MoreLosing Weight
Posted on 10/30/2014
I have a 13 yo daughter who has lost 20 lbs during last 3 mo. Weighs 88 lbs. w/height at 5' 1". She is obsessed with her weight and what she eats. Constantly talks about how much she weighs and...
Read MoreStepsons and Chaos
Posted on 10/28/2014
I have two stepsons ages 8 and 5, who have behavioral problems. When they visit our home it is total chaos. They say they don't want to be at our house and just want to go back to their moms....
Read More2 yr old doesn't like her high chair
Posted on 10/5/2014
Hello there, I think we may have made a mistake with our daughter, and I'm wondering what the best way to walk back from it might be. Our girl just turned two. We had been letting her sit in a...
Read More4 year old Table Manners
Posted on 8/29/2014
My husband and I have been doing John’s “Fail-Safe Formula for Getting Kids to Eat Everything” for over two months with our almost 4-year-old daughter. We put one teaspoon of each of the served...
Read More14 year old Food Fight
Posted on 8/25/2014
After I read Teen Proof, my wife agreed to go 100% using the principles in the book with my 14yr old daughter related to homework and school and we have had great success. I got excellent advice...
Read MoreHe Won't Starve
Posted on 8/16/2014
We have a 34 month old son, William, who is normally a pretty laid back and compliant kid. Meal time, however, has become an absolute battleground. We've tried everything, including asking him if...
Read More1 yo Fits, Feeding a Food Flinger
Posted on 7/16/2014
My daughter just turned one, and has been showing more of her personality the past few weeks. During most diaper and clothing changes, she screams and fights us the entire time. She is very...
Read More7 year old weight problem
Posted on 6/3/2014
My 7 y.o. grandson already has a weight problem. We are very concerned. Our biggest problem is his dad, who is also obese. His dad has unlimited access to the child and is very good father. The...
Read MoreCut the Sweets!
Posted on 5/29/2014
Hi there, My daughter is 9, I have noticed in the last year that she is becoming "thicker". Growing out of ALL of her size 10 shorts and pants, I can see that she eats quite a bit ( especially...
Read More14 yo doesn't eat properly
Posted on 4/17/2014
My 14 year old son is extremely picky with food has very poor eating habits--he skips breakfasts, always wants to eat sweets and junk foods, does not eat any fruits, vegetables or any fresh foods...
Read MoreNew Question
Posted on 3/15/2014
I recently inquired about how to get my 10 month old to sleep through the night without bringing him into bed with us. I was offered the suggestion to soothe him every five minutes etc. How will I...
Read MorePicky eater
Posted on 3/9/2014
I have a 4 year old picky eater. I have read a lot of your articles and past questions about picky eating. My husband and I are thinking about implementing the teaspoon approach. But my daughter...
Read More3 yo twin girls picky eaters
Posted on 2/18/2014
I am the mother of twin daughters who are now almost 3 1/2. They were born 8 weeks premature and for most of their first 2 1/2 years, both suffered from gastric reflux, to the point that it was...
Read MorePicky Eater Question
Posted on 2/12/2014
Time for another question, I wrote recently about one of my eleven adopted children. Now another. She is six years old (the youngest) and decided she does not eat certain things (she used to eat...
Read MoreChildrens' Food Likes/Dislikes
Posted on 1/27/2014
My now 29 year old (with capital letters after her name) and at the time, a 4 year old, said she didn't like casserole. I said, "your mom fixed casserole and we are all going to eat it". She sat...
Read MorePicky Eater at Grandma's
Posted on 1/26/2014
We read with interest your article about not giving food choices to children. As parents, we took that approach with our children. Now, as grandparents who care for our 4 YO grandson four...
Read More16 yo developing eating disorder
Posted on 1/15/2014
Basic question: When, if any, time is it appropriate to try to stop a romantic relationship with our 16 year old daughter and her boyfriend? Brief Explanation: My daughter is developing a romantic...
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