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Marijuana Madness
Posted on 10/17/2019
Hello.. again.. thank you for all your previous answers and advice. I would like thoughts on my husband using marijuana. It will be legalized in our state January 2020, so he's getting it...
Read MoreTimeline for Picky Eaters
Posted on 9/22/2019
At what age is it recommended to start Dr. Rosemond's technique for picky eaters?
Read MoreParenting Strategies Not Paying Off
Posted on 9/18/2019
I have been the children's director for 20+ years at our church. Most of our parents use the book "Shepherding a Child's Heart" by Paul Tripp. I feel like parents are explaining themselves to...
Read MoreRetreats with Dr. Rosemond
Posted on 8/30/2019
Will there be any parent retreats in 2020 on the east coast? We would be interested.
Read MoreConversation interrupters.
Posted on 8/18/2019
We have many friends' and relatives' children who have interrupted our conversations with their parents to talk to us (our child isn't that age yet, but will definitely be taught not to!). My...
Read MoreLet's Talk About Sex, Baby
Posted on 8/7/2019
How do you know when it's the right time to talk to your child about sex? We want to be ahead of the game and make sure he hears it from us, but don't want to do it too soon.
Read MorePosted on 6/28/2019
What is the best way to get your husband to become "husband first", when he has put every other role (provider, father, hobbies) first instead? My attempts at intimacy, or "wife first"...
Read MoreTo Adopt or Not Adopt
Posted on 6/12/2019
Hello, We are considering adopting a child who was addicted to methamphetamine in the womb. He also was exposed to marijuana and cigarettes. We have compassion for him, and we know it is not...
Read MoreHe has got one ticket to ride!
Posted on 6/6/2019
What do we do when our son loses a ticket (currently our ticket system is for disrespectful behavior - specifically for talking back, name calling and/or mocking) and on his way to timeout he does...
Read MoreWhat's a Grandmother To Do?
Posted on 4/29/2019
Good morning, Almost 2 decades of an avid Rosemond follower, I am confident he can offer his wisdom or at least help me help my daughter/grand-kids? My daughter is a 31 YO wonderful person,...
Read MoreAsk them no questions, and they will tell you no lies!
Posted on 3/2/2019
Dear John and team, almost 2 years ago I posted a question about my daughter lying about this and that and just generally not wanting to give a straight answer. We were advised to "ask no...
Read MoreWhy Should Children Listen?
Posted on 2/11/2019
I received a response from Sarah Hamaker, thank you. I'm writing in response to your response. As I said in my 1st note, this situation has been going on since our 14 year old was probably about...
Read MoreChildren Ruling the Roost
Posted on 2/7/2019
Dear Dr. John Rosemond, My husband found out about your profession, while listening to one of your broadcasts. We have purchased several of your books about how to raise & disciplines children. I...
Read MorePosted on 2/7/2019
Would you advise telling your son that God didn’t create him as gay? I told him this initially, but I don’t want to make all of our conversations revolve around this. We told him he cannot date...
Read MoreOutside Influences
Posted on 1/1/2019
I have 5 kids ranging from 3mo to 7 years old. Both sets of grandparents live local and are involved. One set is often I overreaching. They hold some Christian beliefs. They recently told our...
Read MoreMom overwhelmed!
Posted on 12/23/2018
I feel overwhelmed. My husband doesn't listen to me, he won't talk about how to solve problems and only talks about work. We live with my mom for financial reasons and she undermines any...
Read MoreStep IN TIME!
Posted on 12/22/2018
I am apart of a step family. I am having trouble with my step children not accepting me. I feel like this is highly due to how their mother feels about me even though she wanted the divorce she...
Read MoreCommunication
Posted on 12/18/2018
The John Rosemond books and this site have been helpful to me in regards to how I interact with my children. I would like to make our home a marriage centered home, but my husband and I have a...
Read MoreTrauma Causes Diabetes?
Posted on 11/26/2018
I recently went to a conference that had a trauma counselor speak. A lot of it was psychology. She said psychology used to not be a measurable science, but after new studies it now is. She said...
Read MoreEducational Feel Good Programs
Posted on 11/16/2018
What are your thoughts on NEDRP? Restorative practices in education......seems to me like catering to already entitled and spoiled children......building a relationship.....blah blah blah.....Why...
Read MoreRole Reversal Questions
Posted on 11/16/2018
What are your thoughts regarding a wife being the bread winner and a husband staying home with the children. I make significantly more money than my husband so it appears to make sense financially...
Read MoreTurn-around Time
Posted on 9/26/2018
What is the expected turn around time on having a question answered? I asked one a week ago and haven’t gotten a reply. Just making sure it didn’t get lost in the shuffle somewhere... thanks, Ashley
Read MoreRespecting family rules when out with other families' children do what they want
Posted on 9/23/2018
How can I make my child respect our own family rules in public when we're out with other parents and their children seem to do what they want? I don't want to be judgmental towards the other...
Read MoreTeaching a Child to Say "I'm Sorry"
Posted on 9/23/2018
How do I make my child say they're sorry when they hurt someone or did something wrong?
Read MoreThrowing fits at bedtime
Posted on 8/22/2018
Hello! Our eldest daughter started throwing wild tantrums when we put her to bed. Since 1.5 week after we go through our usual bedtime routine and when we are set to leave her room, she jumps...
Read MoreWhen discipline doesn't work
Posted on 8/8/2018
My son doesn't respond to most of the punishments we give because they have been given repeatedly. I have never sent him to bed without dinner, though there have been many times the situation was...
Read MoreOverwhelmed Mom wants to take back her authority, but can't stop yelling
Posted on 8/7/2018
My son is extremely defiant and NOTHING we have tried thus far has made a difference. Spanking him has to be done several times over, and is always accompanied by screaming, blaming, back-talk,...
Read MoreNothing is new under the sun.
Posted on 8/2/2018
What is your opinion of the nurtured heart approach of parenting?
Read MoreWhat a healthy marriage looks like to a child
Posted on 7/7/2018
Dr. Rosemond, Could you please describe the qualities of a husband and wife marriage that increases a child’s respect for adult authority, and the most common pitfalls of marriage that erodes a...
Read MoreLooking for an article...
Posted on 6/3/2018
I would like a copy of the article written for the Naples Daily News on January 1, 2017. Can you tell me how to get it?
Read MoreChore In-completion
Posted on 5/7/2018
Our son will not complete any chore he asked to do. He will start a chore, (cleaning fish tanks and cleaning horse stalls) after being told many times but he doesn't complete it thoroughly after...
Read MoreAssignment Complete!
Posted on 4/18/2018
ParentGuru, I have completed my first assignment of reading The Well-Behaved Child. Please explain why you have not answered my questions.
Read MoreStrategy to break old parenting habits.
Posted on 3/29/2018
How do you avoid using behaviorist strategies in discipline with children? Old habits die hard. Would love to know some tips to avoiding bribing, etc children to obey.
Read MoreKeep it simple.
Posted on 2/7/2018
I’ve done some research on fixed vs growth mindset. What is a John Rosemond’s opinion of this theory and how does it fit into parenting?
Read MoreHow much screen time?
Posted on 2/1/2018
My husband and I disagree on how much video time the children can have. I don't think its appropriate on school nights, even if they get their chores/homework done. My husband thinks it has been a...
Read MoreRosemond on the Radio!
Posted on 12/31/2017
is there a place to listen to previous radio programs?
Read MoreMarital Disagreement over Discipline
Posted on 12/5/2017
I have one biological son who is 13 and 2 years ago gained 3 teenage stepsons due to my 2nd marriage. My husband is smart, successful and well-liked by everyone that meets him. And there's not a...
Read MoreRejected by adult children.
Posted on 11/11/2017
It is embarrassing to admit that we have seemed to blow it as parents, but it sure appears to be the case! I have contacted you about our daughter that has pretty much cut us off and blame us for...
Read MoreClarification, Please
Posted on 11/10/2017
Hey there...just wondering if you had any books or articles to recommend for parental alienation? Thank you, Julie
Read MorePerfectionist 10 Year Old
Posted on 11/3/2017
My eldest daughter is a perfectionist. She is a very organized person and is doing well in school. However, whenever she can't solve a homework problem or she struggles with new song on the piano,...
Read MoreDaily chores need to do by themselves
Posted on 10/27/2017
My kids have daily chores that they do when they get home from school and they always ask me to help them and I do. I want to encourage team work, but I also want them to be independent enough to...
Read MoreAmerican Homeschool Association
Posted on 10/13/2017
I'm trying to find the home school website John recommends in his book The Diseasing of America's Children, but I can't seem to access it? Can you provide any home schooling website that I can...
Read MoreWhining
Posted on 7/6/2017
I have read quiet a bit of John's articles, books and listen to his podcasts. He doesn't talk about whining. Our kids drive us absolutely crazy with whining all day long. They complain...
Read MoreWhen a Child Refuses to Go to Their Room
Posted on 6/21/2017
A follow up question to using the chart or ticket method. The child loses all their tickets or all the boxes are marked off due to misbehavior and the consequence is to be in their room the rest...
Read MoreSeparation and Time with Children
Posted on 5/30/2017
My husband is a covert narcissist. After many years of a bad marriage we have "separated". (I cannot divorce him for fear a judge will give him alone time with our children) He is very immature...
Read MoreAnswer is coming!
Posted on 5/19/2017
I received an email that my question was answered but when I log in and check in my questions asked it says "Awaiting Answer". Where do I go to read the answer?
Read MoreCo-sleeping?
Posted on 5/6/2017
how to address the issue of a child sleeping in bed with mother and father.
Read MoreHow Much Attention?
Posted on 4/25/2017
Love your radio program and love your philosophy. But I'm concerned about something you said. It is that parents don't have to and shouldn't focus their attention on their child but on each other...
Read MoreWhen Grandma is a Softie
Posted on 4/5/2017
Our children are very close with their grandparents. We do not live in the same city as them but they are only an hour away and they see them very regularly. We expect our children to use...
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